The Reason

Dear  Reader,

I was recently asked to give a reason for writing this blog. There are multiple reasons for this blog. I will try to illustrate a few in this posting.

One of the reasons I am writing this blog is to help others who may be going through the same issues. I know this has been the worst hell I have ever been through in my life and would not wish it on my worst enemy. It would have been nice to have someone to share the pain with and connect with on a level that only someone going through this can connect on. I am not so selfish as to believe that I am the only person who has gone through this, although every situation i unique.

The other main reason I am writing this is give light to the fact that men's rights are a joke. Even if we know we are the better parent and are told by friends and family that it's a shame our children have to grow up with our x because they would be so much better off with us. Then the courts award the child to the mother. Whether she is on drugs or she has mental issues or she just does not care about anything with the exception of the child support money there are reasons why that child should not be with the mother and would be better off with the father. The court refuses to see this based solely on gender. This is where the anger and frustration with our broken system comes in.

Reason number three. If this blog garners enough attention, maybe just maybe I will have a chance to gain custody of my daughter as will all the other men willing to take their children on becoming the full time parent. Is it a challenge to be a full time single parent? My god yes it is. Knowing that you are raising your child with honesty, integrity and a real sense of the world is so invaluable though. Knowing that your child will receive everything they need and more to survive and thrive in this world is priceless as well. To many children are brought up in a world where they receive very little love, very little guidance and some affection, and these things are so important.

Without guidance a child does not have a clear picture of the real world? You cannot reasonably survive in a world you are not acutely aware of. Your semblance or reality is not sufficiently grounded. I have met people who have this issue. From what I have seen it has not benefitted them in any way shape or form. They are always disappointed with life because they assume that they should get or have everything with very little effort. As we all know it takes hard work to obtain what you need in life let alone what you want.  

So if you will help me bring our cause to the world sharing it with everyone you can. Bring our suffering out give us true equality. It is time that we as men fought for our equal right to be parents. I urge you to bring as many people as you can to this blog.

The subsequent posts will be staggered. Some posts will chronicle my experiences coupled with facts that I have uncovered that may help other fathers in this situation. Some posts will be strictly information with a touch of personal opinion. As this BLOG progresses it will also give a father’s view of what is wrong in this world that will affect our children.

I sincerely thank you for reading this blog and hope you come back for more.

Sincerely,

Mark